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I’m not getting stressed because it’s National Stress Awareness Day in the UK. But I will promise to blog a little more from now on 🙂

So anyway, there I was, this morning at 7.15am, typing an article for an online forum about stress. I’d typed my 2000 characters, pressed review and got an error message, pressed back and my article had disappeared. BIG deep breathe and ironic laughter as I was not going to get stressed over writing an article about stress.

Work is the biggest cause of stress in the western world, with our technology overload, long hours, job insecurity and, for the self-employed, working in the business as well as on the business.

We all need some stress to function but when a personal believes the demands made of them exceed their ability to cope, then they will experience negative stress.

According to a recent Aviva survey, UK workers are putting in an extra 26 million hours a day. The mental health charity Mind recent reported that £26 billion is lost each year by British business in sickness absence and lost productivity.

Signs you or a colleague may be stressed include irritability, lack of motivation, changes in appetite, headaches, crying, palpitations, anxiety, more coughs and colds that usual, lack of concentration, increase in spots on skin or ezcema, muscle tension to name just a few.

You may not think you are stressed now but if you continue to place yourself under excessive pressures, work late, read emails at 11pm, try to do it all yourself, then the compound effect comes into place and a few months or even years ahead you could well suffer with stress.

So what can be done to help reduce stress? Change your beliefs – the way we think about a situation can have a direct bearing on the amount of stress we experience. Reframing a situation and looking at it from a more positive perspective is very useful. Plan and time manage your day and week ahead, don’t leave things til the last minute and set boundaries if your office is at home. Delegate and ask for help – 4N is awash with people who can help. Breathe deeply – take a moment to sit up straight and breathe from the stomach, breathe in for count of 4, hold for 2 and out for 6.

Finally, TAKE A BREAK. There is no excuse not to take a moment out of the workplace, particularly on a lovely autumn day/evening like today.


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Wow!  What an fabulous two days I’ve just had.  I’ve been a Reiki Practitioner for 5 years now but have only recently felt the desire to become a  Reiki Master Teacher.  I was a little apprehensive at first and very nervous about learning the attunements, but my Reiki Master is a wonderful teacher and made me very at ease.  My confidence grew and I thoroughly enjoyed learning the next level.  

I actually didn’t get much sleep last night as I going through all the attuments in my head but am confident that I’ve got them sussed.  The stuffed toy I was practising on must be the most spiritual stuffed toy in Bucks now!

Next step is to spend several days practising the attunements, revising my syllabus, finding a couple of people to practice on and then stepping out into the big wide world of being a Reiki Master.  

Of course, it’s not just about teaching and sharing this wonderful gift with other peope;  I’m also now on a new journey myself (no, I’m not on a reality tv show!).  I’ve lots more things to learn and I know that new experiences are coming my way which I shall joyfully embrace.   I love change; it’s always for the best as far as I’m concerned and I can’t wait to take my Reiki to a new level and for Reiki to take me to a new level.



Sarah Pluves’ Holistic Therapies

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